| Location | Spalding |
| Age | 42 years |
| Date of Birth | 26/07/1964 |
| Date of Death | 18/05/2007 |
| Visitors | 14,794 since 14/07/2008 |
| Creator |
Mark Antony Trevey
Died 18th May 2007, aged 42 years.
Mark was a self employed window cleaner, he was born on 26th July 1964, he lived in Spalding,
Lincolnshire, all his life. Mark was my partner for seven years we have three boys, Joseph who is
now 22, Nathan who will be 21 in ten days time and Connor who is now 13, Mark has two sisters Mandy
and Jackie and one brother Jason, his Mum and Dad also live in Spalding. Mark died very suddenly on
18th May 2007, totally unexpected. The greatest shock of our lives.
I met Mark through friends at a local pub, we actually got together on New Years Eve 2000, we spent
the whole night laughing, chatting and having fun. He walked me home and the rest as they say is
history,
i was a very quiet person, when Mark first met me, he bought me out of myself, he taught me a lot of
things, how to have a good time, to let things wash over you, not to get too bogged down . , he
gave me confidence. Mark was always up for a laugh, he never got caught up with every day
pressures, he was very laid back, almost horizontal. Mark had tons of friends, we couldn't fo
anywhere without getting stopped to have chats, at his funeral over three hundred people attended,
they came from all over, Mark was a very big well known character in our town.
Mark loved children, every member of my family have children, they were all drawn to him, he was
like a magnet, he was happy to just sit with them and talk, on his window cleaning rounds, when the
children were at home he would let them wash the windows at the bottom of the house, they thought it
was great fun, he would send them off on some task, so that he could do the job properly. Some of
them would make him cakes and cookies especially in time for when he would arrive to clean the
windows, some would give him drawings, they all used to look forward to him coming round. I have a
lovely photo of Mark and our nephew Liam, we had spent the day in the garden having fun and a
barbecue in the evening, Liam had got very tired, the photo is of them both sitting on the settee,
Liam has fallen asleep laying on Mark's chest. This sums Mark up really, he was absolutely
brilliant wth children, he loved the boys, they were always play fighting and calling each other
names, all trying to out do each other, the house was usually filled with laughter. Birthdays and
Christmas were always very special, we always had special meals on our birthdays, Nathans birthday
is two days before Mark's and we usually spent the whole week partying. At christmas the house was
over run with lights, decorations and presents, Connor and Mark always went to get a tree on the
15th December, one year it was so big it wouldn't fit in the room, Mark had to cut the top off, I
would then get in from work, have tea and then start decorating the tree in the living room, it
would take hours, Mark always put the lights on and the boys and I would put on all the
decorations. We had a tree in the living room, the dining room and Connors room, Joseph and Nathan
just put lights up in their bedroom. Then there were all the outside lights, usually Mark and Nathan
would put them all up, over a period of days.
Mark was such a big figure in all our lives, he meant the world to us, our lives are totally
changed, I cannot believe I will never see him again, or hear him say "mornin chick, want a coffee",
he always called me chick, he would walk in the door and say "alright chick". I'll miss Mark for
the rest of my life, I can't put into words what he meant to me or how much I miss him, there is
such a void in my life, I truly hope Mark knew how much I love him and how much he meant to all of
us, we spend hours talking about him, there isn't a single day when the boys don't mention him,
usually we laugh at our memories, but we also cry, it's very hard to have to sit and listen to your
children cry for someone who isn't there any more.
Mark and Joe were the brainy ones of the family, always interested in natural history, shouting out
answers to the quizzes on tv, Nathan and Mark were always the handy people to have around, they did
the patio, decking and turfed the garden, and Connor was Mark's shadow, wherever Mark was, Connor
wasn't far behind, they were all much more than Father and Son they were good friends as well.
A year on from that awful day and I still can't believe this has happened, I still think it's a
nightmare from which I will wake, but when I sit at his grave and look at our memorials I know it's
not a terrible dream but an awful reality.
My darling Mark I will miss you forever, I'll never forget you, there isn't a day when we don't
think about you or talk about you. You will be in our hearts always
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I would like to thank everyone for all the candles, tributes & pictures that are left on Christopher's website they are all very much appreciated.
Tributes For Week Starting 23rd November
FOR MONDAY
The best and most beautiful
Things in the world cannot
Be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.
FOR TUESDAY
Gone yet not forgotten,
Although we are apart,
Your spirit lives within me,
Forever in my heart.
FOR WEDNESDAY
A gift for such a little while,
Your loss just seems so wrong,
You should not have left before us,
It’s with loved ones you belong.
FOR THURSDAY
Perhaps they are not
Stars in the sky,
But rather openings
Where our loved ones shine down
To let us know they are happy.
FOR FRIDAY
The Watcher
They always leaned to watch for us
Anxious if we were late,
In winter by the window,
In summer by the gate.
And though we mocked them tenderly
Who had such foolish care,
The long way home would seem more safe,
Because they waited there.
Their thoughts were all so full of us,
They never could forget,
And so I think that where they are
They must be watching yet.
Waiting ‘til we come home to them
Anxious if we are late
Watching from Heaven’s window
Leaning from Heaven’s gate.
FOR SATURDAY
As We Look Back
As we look back over time
We find ourselves wondering .....
Did we remember to thank you enough
For all you have done for us?
For all the times you were by our sides
To help and support us .....
To celebrate our successes
To understand our problems
And accept our defeats?
Or for teaching us by your example,
The value of hard work, good judgement,
Courage and integrity?
We wonder if we ever thanked you
For the sacrifices you made.
To let us have the very best?
And for the simple things
Like laughter, smiles and times we shared?
If we have forgotten to show our
Gratitude enough for all the things you did,
We're thanking you now.
And we are hoping you knew all along,
How much you meant to us.
FOR SUNDAY
To Those Whom I Love and Those Who Love Me
When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy that I have had so many years
I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness
I think you for the love each have shown
But now it is time I traveled on alone
So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It is only for a while that we must part
So bless the memoriss in your heart
I will not be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call and I will come
Though you can not see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you will hear
All of my love around you soft and clear
Then, when you must come this way alone
I will greet you with a smile and a
"Welcome Home"
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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I LOOK AROUND AND I SEE SO MANY BROKEN HEARTS THAT WILL NEVER HEAL
I TRY TO IMAGINE HOW EACH PERSON WILL FEEL
I WRITE WORDS FILLED WITH SO MUCH LOVE
THEY ARE ALWAYS SENT TO OUR ANGELS RESTING IN HEAVEN ABOVE
I KNOW THAT WE ARE ALL FEELING THE PAIN SO BAD
WE ALL WANT THE FAMILY BACK THAT WE HAD
CHRISTMAS IS COMING WE SEEM TO FEEL THE PAIN SO MUCH MORE
ALL WE WANT IS TO SHARE THE TIMES LIKE WE DID BEFOR
WE CAN ONLY IMGAINE THAT YOU ARE ALL TOGETHER IN THE GARDEN OF LOVE
RIGHT NOW WE ALL NEED OUR ANGELS TO SEND KISSES FROM HIGH ABOVE
ALLOW US TO FEEL THEM FLOATING RIGHT BY
FROM EACH AND EVERY ANGEL RESTING IN THE SKY
WE ALL NEED TO KNOW THAT OUR ANGELS ARE STILL AROUND
MAYBE YOU WILL BE ABLE TO SEND A FEW PURE WHITE FEATHERS FOR US TO FIND ON THE GROUND
HELP US ALL THOUGH THE HARD TIMES THAT ARE LAYING AHEAD
EACH ONE OF OUR ANGELS LIVES ON IN OUR HEARTS AND IN OUR HEARTS THEY ARE NOT DEAD
WHILE EVER OUR HEARTS ARE BEATING THEY WILL BE PART OF OUR LIVES THEY ALWAYS WILL
EVEN WHEN WE ARE GOING THOUGH SUCH A HORRIBLE TIME AND IT FEELS LIKE OUR LIFES ARE STOOD SO STILL
OUR ANGELS WILL BE WITH US AND THEY WILL HELP TO GUIDE US EVERY DAY
THEY WILL ALL BE LISTENING IN HEAVEN TO THE WORDS THAT WE HAVE TO SAY
THIS TIME OF YEAR GETS HARDER HAS EACH DAY GOES ON BY
OUR ANGELS DO NOT LIKE TO SEE US WHEN WE BREAK DOWN AND CRY
THE SPIRIT OF EACH AND EVERY ANGEL LIVES ON FOREVER MORE
UNTIL IT IS OUR TIME TO JOIN THEM THEY WILL WAIT FOR US AT HEAVENS DOOR
THEY CAN READ DEEP INSIDE EACH AND EVERY BROKEN HEART THEY LEFT BEHIND RIGHT HERE
MAYBE IF WE LISTEN TO OUR HEARTS THEY WILL BE ABLE TO WHISPER IN OUR EAR......
copyright Rosalind Roberts 19/11/09
TRIBUTE FOR 19-11-09
♥*•♥ One Gift♥*•♥
One gift, above all others
God gives to us to treasure
One that knows no time, no place
And one gold cannot measure
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The precious, poignant tender gift
Of Memory...that will keep
Of dear ones ever in our hearts
Although God gives them sleep
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It brings back long remembered things
A song, a word, a smile
And the world's a better place
...because
We had them for awhile!
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TRIBUTE FOR 20-11-09
The pain we feel inside today
Is the pain we try to hide,
For no one will ever know
The tears i cry inside.
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It seems like only yesterday
The wound is still so sore.
For every hour of every day
We miss you more and more
For you are someone special
And think the world of you.
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TRIBUTE FOR 21-11-09
Missing You
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I just can't believe it
The sun still sets and rises.
The moon and stars still shine.
The flowers still bloom,
The birds still sing.
I expected a change in everything...
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I just can't believe it.
It still gets dark and light.
The ocean still has waves,
The rain still rains,
The wind still blows.
Is it because they do not know?
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I just can't believe it.
I thought the world would stop,
When in the house I found
An empty chair,
A missing smile.
I thought it would stop
For just a while.
I just can't believe it....
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TRIBUTE FOR 22-11-09
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You gave us love
And lots more,
We have so much
To thank you for,
Silent thoughts,
Memories deep,
Locked in our hearts
For ever to keep.
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I wish you all a very peaceful weekend my friend
With love as always Linda.xxx
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18TH NOVEMBER 2009
♥............REMEMBERED ALWAYS ..................♥
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Up to the moon and the stars..
Way past Jupiter..
And way past Mars
You are missed by so many..
And loved so very much
If you can beautiful Angel..
Please stay in touch
We all love you precious Angel..
So just you remember this..
I will blow kisses up to heaven..
For our Angel that we miss
With love always, Jude. xXx
copyright ~ Jackie Thomas 18/10/09
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To See You Once Again
Josette Kerns
I wish with all my heart I could see you once more,
I would use that moment and time to tell you how
Much love my heart holds for you and I shall never
Close that door.
Life each and every day with out you keeps going on
Even if some days I do not wish it I know I am being
Selfish and maybe even wrong, but to see you just once
More I so very much long.
I try to remember all the loving and happy times we
Were granted to enjoy and share, I try to understand
And not cry but to see you once more even only for a
moment to let you know just how very much I do care.
I know that day will eventually come when its my turn
To this world to say goodbye, But until then I shall hold
your love close to my heart, and sometimes I shall break
Down and cry, and I will still ask the question why did you
have to die?
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Tributes For Week Starting 16th November
FOR MONDAY
Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our life to share,
But in our hearts you’re always there.
FOR TUESDAY
I sit and wonder every day,
Why the Lord chose to call you away,
I think He saw you needed rest,
He only takes the very best.
FOR WEDNESDAY
Everyday in some small way,
Memories of you come our way,
Though absent, you are always near,
Still missed, loved, always dear.
FOR THURSDAY
Resting where no shadows fall,
In peaceful sleep he awaits us all;
God will link the broken chain,
When one by one we meet again.
FOR FRIDAY
Surrounded by friends
Yet all alone
The one I loved
God has called home
The hugs of friends
Helps ease the pain
And I know my loss
Is my loved one's gain
But tears now flow
Across my face
As I long for just
One more embrace
Then comfort comes
And I see Christ's face
He hugs my loved one
And I feel God's grace.
FOR SATURDAY
Please don't sing sad songs for me,
Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place
Away from pain and tears...
It's far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side.
My life on earth was very good,
As earthly life can go,
But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know..
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My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with God is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.
FOR SUNDAY
When I come to the end of the day
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little, but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love we once shared,
Miss me but let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the maker's plan,
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart,
Go to the friends we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds -
Miss me, but let me go.
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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14TH NOVEMBER 2009
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╬ ╬ ╬ ╬ ╬ GOODNIGHT SWEETHEART. ╬ ╬ ╬ ╬ ╬
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14TH NOVEMBER 2009
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╬ ╬ ╬ ╬ ╬ GOODNIGHT SWEETHEART. ╬ ╬ ╬ ╬ ╬
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