| Location | Spalding |
| Age | 42 years |
| Date of Birth | 26/07/1964 |
| Date of Death | 18/05/2007 |
| Visitors | 14,793 since 14/07/2008 |
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Mark Antony Trevey
Died 18th May 2007, aged 42 years.
Mark was a self employed window cleaner, he was born on 26th July 1964, he lived in Spalding,
Lincolnshire, all his life. Mark was my partner for seven years we have three boys, Joseph who is
now 22, Nathan who will be 21 in ten days time and Connor who is now 13, Mark has two sisters Mandy
and Jackie and one brother Jason, his Mum and Dad also live in Spalding. Mark died very suddenly on
18th May 2007, totally unexpected. The greatest shock of our lives.
I met Mark through friends at a local pub, we actually got together on New Years Eve 2000, we spent
the whole night laughing, chatting and having fun. He walked me home and the rest as they say is
history,
i was a very quiet person, when Mark first met me, he bought me out of myself, he taught me a lot of
things, how to have a good time, to let things wash over you, not to get too bogged down . , he
gave me confidence. Mark was always up for a laugh, he never got caught up with every day
pressures, he was very laid back, almost horizontal. Mark had tons of friends, we couldn't fo
anywhere without getting stopped to have chats, at his funeral over three hundred people attended,
they came from all over, Mark was a very big well known character in our town.
Mark loved children, every member of my family have children, they were all drawn to him, he was
like a magnet, he was happy to just sit with them and talk, on his window cleaning rounds, when the
children were at home he would let them wash the windows at the bottom of the house, they thought it
was great fun, he would send them off on some task, so that he could do the job properly. Some of
them would make him cakes and cookies especially in time for when he would arrive to clean the
windows, some would give him drawings, they all used to look forward to him coming round. I have a
lovely photo of Mark and our nephew Liam, we had spent the day in the garden having fun and a
barbecue in the evening, Liam had got very tired, the photo is of them both sitting on the settee,
Liam has fallen asleep laying on Mark's chest. This sums Mark up really, he was absolutely
brilliant wth children, he loved the boys, they were always play fighting and calling each other
names, all trying to out do each other, the house was usually filled with laughter. Birthdays and
Christmas were always very special, we always had special meals on our birthdays, Nathans birthday
is two days before Mark's and we usually spent the whole week partying. At christmas the house was
over run with lights, decorations and presents, Connor and Mark always went to get a tree on the
15th December, one year it was so big it wouldn't fit in the room, Mark had to cut the top off, I
would then get in from work, have tea and then start decorating the tree in the living room, it
would take hours, Mark always put the lights on and the boys and I would put on all the
decorations. We had a tree in the living room, the dining room and Connors room, Joseph and Nathan
just put lights up in their bedroom. Then there were all the outside lights, usually Mark and Nathan
would put them all up, over a period of days.
Mark was such a big figure in all our lives, he meant the world to us, our lives are totally
changed, I cannot believe I will never see him again, or hear him say "mornin chick, want a coffee",
he always called me chick, he would walk in the door and say "alright chick". I'll miss Mark for
the rest of my life, I can't put into words what he meant to me or how much I miss him, there is
such a void in my life, I truly hope Mark knew how much I love him and how much he meant to all of
us, we spend hours talking about him, there isn't a single day when the boys don't mention him,
usually we laugh at our memories, but we also cry, it's very hard to have to sit and listen to your
children cry for someone who isn't there any more.
Mark and Joe were the brainy ones of the family, always interested in natural history, shouting out
answers to the quizzes on tv, Nathan and Mark were always the handy people to have around, they did
the patio, decking and turfed the garden, and Connor was Mark's shadow, wherever Mark was, Connor
wasn't far behind, they were all much more than Father and Son they were good friends as well.
A year on from that awful day and I still can't believe this has happened, I still think it's a
nightmare from which I will wake, but when I sit at his grave and look at our memorials I know it's
not a terrible dream but an awful reality.
My darling Mark I will miss you forever, I'll never forget you, there isn't a day when we don't
think about you or talk about you. You will be in our hearts always
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♥ `*•.� 13th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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...........|.....|..........I wish you all a good weekend,
...........|.....|..........With love as always Linda.xxx
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10TH NOVEMBER 2009
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~Life Beyond ~
Let them go, but not completely.
Hold on to them, but not too tightly.
Love them as you know you will,
as you always have.
Rejoice that they are well, the only difference
now is that you cannot see them,
But you feel them still and they will always be with you.
The spirit does not die as the body dies
and Love is of the spirit.
Nothing you have experienced together can be taken from you.
And your loved one shall be eternally yours in that love.
Weep not too long, that they may also cry,
But rejoice in their life and in yours also.
Let yours continue to be a celebration of all life; of your shared love,
Knowing that God holds you both in the palm of his hand
And in loving you both shall reunite you.
~~ Author Unknown.~~
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Tears
One tiny gentle tear drop
Fell upon the ground
Pain that it carried
Lost without a sound
One tiny gentle tear drop
Landing on a cheek
Strength it had stolen
Left the owner weak
One tiny gentle tear drop
Settled on a mind
Washes the conscience
Of hurt left behind
One tiny gentle tear drop
Displayed its inner core
Never to be noticed
It trickled through the door
One tiny gentle tear drop
Gave up the fight
To join the company of others
Flowing every night
One tiny gentle tear drop
I will keep with me
Just as a reminder
Of how cruel life can be
By Angie
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Flying on the wings of freedom
I soar across my life
I suddenly release my anguish
I’ve been freed from strife
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I held a boulder for so long
I was weak and heavy laden
My walk was hard and tedious
For release I was waiting
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I know that you weep for me
Because I left you alone
Know that I am with you still
I watch from heaven’s throne
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One day we will meet again
But for now I’m watching you
Holding your hand and waiting
For when you come here too
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Keep me always in your heart
Believe I am at peace
God held out his hand that day
I took it to end my grief
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My walk on earth was blessed
Because I had you to love
You are my family and friends
Remember I am right above
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So please weep no longer
Write on your heart your word
Tell the story of heaven
The greatest that’s ever been heard
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Twanica Adcock 2004
`*•.� 10th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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Love Shines Through
Like a shadow in the moonlight
Like the whisper of the seas
Like the echoes of a melody
Just beyond our reach
In the shadow of our sorrow
Past the whisper of goodbye
Love shines through eternity
A heartbeat from our eye
By : Catherine Turner
♥ `*•.� 11th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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TIME WILL EASE THE HURT
by Bruce B. Wilmer
The sadness of the present days
Is locked and set in time,
And meaning to the future
Is a slow and painful climb.
But all the feelings that are now
So vivid and so real
Can't hold their fresh intensity
As time begins to heal.
No wound so deep will ever go
Entirely away;
Yet every hurt becomes
A little less from day to day.
Nothing can erase the painful
Imprints on your mind;
But there are softer memories
That time will let you find.
Though your heart won't let the sadness
Simply slide away,
The echoes will diminish
Even though the memories stay.
♥ `*•.� 12th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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Memories ?
Memories fill the empty space
Where you used to lie
Tears flood my eyes
As I see your face
Your smile
I hear your voice
The humour
I smile...
God Bless You Beautiful Angel
With me all the while
My memories
Take me straight to you
Bridge time and space
Uniting us forever
In an unbroken embrace
Have A Lovely Week My Friends.
With Love Always Linda.xxx
9th November 2009
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It's night time again...
Beautiful Angel above
So tonight I will send you lots of love
Cuddle up warm..
On this November night
We all love and miss you..
With all of our might
You sleep on the clouds..
All fluffy and white
I bet you look..
Such a beautiful sight
Just snuggle up..
All cosy with God above
And watch me light..
Your candle with love
copyright� Jackie Thomas 09/11/09.
FIREWORK
hiya mark
on the 5th of november chris lite a firework and sent it up to u .added with lots off love from all of us down here
LOVE AND MISS YOU ALWAYS MARK XXXXXXX
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Tributes For Week Starting 9th November
FOR MONDAY
Your presence I miss,
Your memory I treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.
FOR TUESDAY
Loving you is easy,
We do it every day,
Missing you is a heartache,
That never goes away.
FOR WEDNESDAY
No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God can tell us why.
FOR THURSDAY
Memory is a lovely lane,
Where hearts are ever true,
A lane I so often travel down,
Because it leads to you.
FOR FRIDAY
Wings Of The Angels
A gentle wind blew cross the land
Reaching out to take a hand
For on the winds the angels came
Calling out a mother's name.
Left behind, the children's tears
Loving memories of the years
Of joy and love, a life well spent
And now to God a mother's sent.
On angel's wings, a heavenly flight
The journey home, towards the light
To those who weep, a life is gone
But in God's love, 'tis but the dawn.
FOR SATURDAY
If I Had One Last Day
If I had one last day
To tell you what's inside
I'd tell you that I'm sorry
For all the times I've lied
I'd tell you that I need you
To hold my hand today
I'd tell you that I love you
I'd ask you, please, to stay
You'd look at me and smile
The way you always would
And say "I'd love to stay,
If only I really could"
Then you'd laugh the way you did
Whenever I was blue
You'd wipe my tears and whisper softly,
"Don't cry, I love you too"
If I had one last day
I'd love you from the start
I'd stop hiding how I feel
I'd say what's in my heart
If I had one last day,
I'd say my last good-bye
And that even though you are far away,
In my heart, you'll never die.
FOR SUNDAY
Cry Not My Friend
When you wake up tomorrow
And I am no where to be found
When you scream out my name
To the emptiness around
When every beat inside your heart
Is skipping and unsure
Cry not my friend for I am here,
Inside your love so pure
When the waves that used to touch our feet
Have gone back out to sea
When everything you once held dear
Was lost when you lost me
When the sun that once lit up your face
Is setting far away
Cry not my Friend for time shall pass,
But my love for you will stay
When age arrives and children play
And pain creeps up on you
When loved ones show you happiness
That your life never knew
When all of your expectations are met,
No matter what the pain
Cry not my friend, for I am waiting
To hold you once again
When beauty in your eyes turn grey
And all of the rainbow, white
When strong undying hearts
No longer feel an urge to fight
When winter snows become more pain
Than beauty in your heart
Cry not my friend, for I am here
And we will never ever part
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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7TH NOVEMBER 2009
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