| Location | Spalding |
| Age | 42 years |
| Date of Birth | 26/07/1964 |
| Date of Death | 18/05/2007 |
| Visitors | 14,793 since 14/07/2008 |
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Mark Antony Trevey
Died 18th May 2007, aged 42 years.
Mark was a self employed window cleaner, he was born on 26th July 1964, he lived in Spalding,
Lincolnshire, all his life. Mark was my partner for seven years we have three boys, Joseph who is
now 22, Nathan who will be 21 in ten days time and Connor who is now 13, Mark has two sisters Mandy
and Jackie and one brother Jason, his Mum and Dad also live in Spalding. Mark died very suddenly on
18th May 2007, totally unexpected. The greatest shock of our lives.
I met Mark through friends at a local pub, we actually got together on New Years Eve 2000, we spent
the whole night laughing, chatting and having fun. He walked me home and the rest as they say is
history,
i was a very quiet person, when Mark first met me, he bought me out of myself, he taught me a lot of
things, how to have a good time, to let things wash over you, not to get too bogged down . , he
gave me confidence. Mark was always up for a laugh, he never got caught up with every day
pressures, he was very laid back, almost horizontal. Mark had tons of friends, we couldn't fo
anywhere without getting stopped to have chats, at his funeral over three hundred people attended,
they came from all over, Mark was a very big well known character in our town.
Mark loved children, every member of my family have children, they were all drawn to him, he was
like a magnet, he was happy to just sit with them and talk, on his window cleaning rounds, when the
children were at home he would let them wash the windows at the bottom of the house, they thought it
was great fun, he would send them off on some task, so that he could do the job properly. Some of
them would make him cakes and cookies especially in time for when he would arrive to clean the
windows, some would give him drawings, they all used to look forward to him coming round. I have a
lovely photo of Mark and our nephew Liam, we had spent the day in the garden having fun and a
barbecue in the evening, Liam had got very tired, the photo is of them both sitting on the settee,
Liam has fallen asleep laying on Mark's chest. This sums Mark up really, he was absolutely
brilliant wth children, he loved the boys, they were always play fighting and calling each other
names, all trying to out do each other, the house was usually filled with laughter. Birthdays and
Christmas were always very special, we always had special meals on our birthdays, Nathans birthday
is two days before Mark's and we usually spent the whole week partying. At christmas the house was
over run with lights, decorations and presents, Connor and Mark always went to get a tree on the
15th December, one year it was so big it wouldn't fit in the room, Mark had to cut the top off, I
would then get in from work, have tea and then start decorating the tree in the living room, it
would take hours, Mark always put the lights on and the boys and I would put on all the
decorations. We had a tree in the living room, the dining room and Connors room, Joseph and Nathan
just put lights up in their bedroom. Then there were all the outside lights, usually Mark and Nathan
would put them all up, over a period of days.
Mark was such a big figure in all our lives, he meant the world to us, our lives are totally
changed, I cannot believe I will never see him again, or hear him say "mornin chick, want a coffee",
he always called me chick, he would walk in the door and say "alright chick". I'll miss Mark for
the rest of my life, I can't put into words what he meant to me or how much I miss him, there is
such a void in my life, I truly hope Mark knew how much I love him and how much he meant to all of
us, we spend hours talking about him, there isn't a single day when the boys don't mention him,
usually we laugh at our memories, but we also cry, it's very hard to have to sit and listen to your
children cry for someone who isn't there any more.
Mark and Joe were the brainy ones of the family, always interested in natural history, shouting out
answers to the quizzes on tv, Nathan and Mark were always the handy people to have around, they did
the patio, decking and turfed the garden, and Connor was Mark's shadow, wherever Mark was, Connor
wasn't far behind, they were all much more than Father and Son they were good friends as well.
A year on from that awful day and I still can't believe this has happened, I still think it's a
nightmare from which I will wake, but when I sit at his grave and look at our memorials I know it's
not a terrible dream but an awful reality.
My darling Mark I will miss you forever, I'll never forget you, there isn't a day when we don't
think about you or talk about you. You will be in our hearts always
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DREAMS
Dreams are where you relive memories,
a special time gone forever.
Dreams can take you to far away places,
that are only there while you sleep.
Dreams can make you smile or make you cry,
but when you wake you must say good-bye.
Dreamers can be what they want to be.
Dreamers are you and me.
Dreams are where you can see things,
that can no-longer be.
Dreams can take me to you,
no-matter where you are.
Dreams can make me smile or make me cry,
I never want to wake if I have to say good-bye.
Dreams can let me see you,
To touch you and hold you.
That's the only time I can be with you.
That's all I have left of you.
But I'll see you tonight in my dreams.
by Leslie D. Green
TRIBUTE FOR THURSDAY 5.11.09
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The size of sadness
Can you measure our pain?
It reaches the stars and back again
Can you count our tears?
They are as many as winter rain
Can you weigh our emptiness?
The world and more would come to less
With no hope of sun tomorrow
That's how we see our sorrow
Add all together -The size of sadness
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TRIBUTE FOR FRIDAY 6.11.09.
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Having you not with me
Hurts more and more each day
Although I feel a closeness
In a very special way
Even as I go to sleep
Every thought is of you
And I never thought i'd miss you
In quite the way I do
So i'm hoping that these words
May some how let you know
That you're in my heart forever
And i'll always love you so
The one and only thing
That helps me with the pain
Is dreaming of the time
When I will see you once again...
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TRIBUTE FOR SATURDAY 07.1109
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My love is with you
Oh What can I say?
My heart is empty without you each and every day.
The Angel wings you wear must be so grand,
if only I could reach out and touch your hand,
maybe then we could say goodbye,
which would help dry the tears that I cry
Now I know that’s impossible for us to do,
so let’s make a deal just you and me.
When I look to the stars at night,
you look for me with all your might,
when you see me just shine real bright,
together we can send our love
and say Good Night.
I would like to wish you all a very good weekend and God Bless all our Angels and all our BRAVE HERO'S who have Lost Their Lives.
With love as always Linda.xxx
Gone too soon
♥ Imagine ♥
♥ Imagine a desert
♥ without sand
♥ Imagine an arm
♥ without a hand
♥ Imagine a butterfly
♥ without wings
♥ Imagine winter without
♥ the promise of spring
♥ Imagine night without
♥ the arrival of dawn
♥ Imagine a life spent
♥ being just a pawn
♥ Image a soul
♥ that never connects
♥ Imagine a world
♥ that always rejects
♥ Imagine eyes that
♥ do not see
♥ Imagine knowing
♥ it can never be...
♥ Imagine a touch that
♥ does not feel
♥ Imagine a heart
♥ made out of steel
♥ Imagine a body
♥ that does not yield
♥ Imagine life’s storms
♥ without a human shield
♥ Imagine a tear
♥ that never cries
♥ Imagine an ache
♥ that never dies
♥ Impossible to imagine….
♥ It’s life without you!
♥ Copyright� Mary Thong-Garner ♥
THE MASTER'S BOUQUET
The Master walked in His garden
Plucking flowers along the way;
He plucked one of my loved ones,
To add to his bouquet.
My heart at first was broken,
At the loss of one so dear;
But the tears I shed just washed my eyes,
So I saw His way more clear.
My Lord has a need for just this one,
For the pattern He has in mind;
But it's hard for the rest of us to see
Why we must be left behind.
Perhaps we are not ready to go just yet
We may need to ripen more
To reach the full blown fragrance
My Lord is waiting for.
To each, give forth a fragrance
To each we chance to meet
We should each be trying day by day
To make our fragrance sweet.
So I'm going to try my very best
To be loving and kind each day,
So at last I'll be counted worthy
To be part of my Master's Bouquet.
Author Unknown
4th November 2009
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✝ • ♥ • ✞ Just Like a rainbow, ✝ • ♥ • ✞
Fading in the twinkling of an eye………
✝ • ♥ • ✞ Gone Too Soon . ✝ • ♥ • ✞
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~~♥~~ 3rd November 2009 ~~♥~
♥* SENT WITH LOVE TO YOU ANGEL *♥*
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Thinking of you is Easy,
We Remember you each day.
The heartbreak that we feel
Just never goes away,
♥⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱
Nothing is the same no more
As we try to carry on,
We want the way it was before.
We found out you were gone,
♥⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱
Yes we have our memories,
We also have the pain,
But all we ever wanted ..
Was to have you home again.
♥⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰⊱
4th November 2009
I would like to thank you with all my heart for your kindness and caring on Alan's Angel day, I have no words strong enough to tell you how grateful I am.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE TRIBUTES,PICTURES, GIFTS AND CANDLES
The true friends who we meet online
Are a very special kind
They pierce your shields and see within
The corners of your mind.
They're always there when you're in need
With their power to discern.
They feel your pain.....
They offer hope and genuine concern.
We bare our souls, expose our hearts
And show our inner fears
And then before you know it
The keyboard's stained with tears.
And if we could see them through that screen
Then no one could deny
That to be a TRUE online friend
They too must cry.
Unknown
~My Cyber Friends~
I haven't ever seen you,
But I know you're really there;
I click you into reality
Like magic from the air.
Your voice is like an angel,
Though I really do not hear;
Your hug as warm as any
Of loved ones I hold dear.
You're always there for comfort,
Or a word of cheer;
Though you are very far away,
I always have you near.
You're a very special friend,
Like none I've ever known;
As long as you're in cyberspace
I'll never be alone......
(author unknown)
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Tributes For Week Starting 2nd November
FOR MONDAY
There's a special kind of feeling,
That's meant for you alone,
A special place within our hearts,
That only you can own.
FOR TUESDAY
If only prayers were answered,
& wishes did come true,
Our only wishes with all our hearts,
Would be to still have you
FOR WEDNESDAY
We send this special message
To the heavens up above
Please take care of our precious angels
And give them all our love
FOR THURSDAY
I lit a candle for you today
May it's light reflect my love your way
Now I must go until next time
I will forever keep you, gently on my mind
FOR FRIDAY
Angels
When you were born, an angel smiled,
As you became a child, an angel sat on your shoulder
When you became an adult, an angel held your hand
As you grew old, an angel walked down the road with you,
And, when you died, another angel got their wings.
FOR SATURDAY
Letter From Heaven
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said,
"I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed
While you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
Remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
FOR SUNDAY
Reply to "Letter from Heaven"
My Dearest Loved one:
I received your Letter from Heaven,
It made the teardrops fall.
But knowing you’re with God above,
Sweet memories, I will recall.
I know that you are with me,
For I feel your presence near.
And if I listen closely,
Your voice I then can hear.
I know you’re watching o’er me,
As you promised you would do.
And when I feel so saddened,
It’s your letter that sees me through.
When I lay in bed at night,
The day’s chores put to flight,
I truly feel your presence,
Like a warm and glowing light.
The rocky roads you mentioned,
And the hills that I must climb;
I’ve done exactly what you said,
By taking one day at a time.
I’ve tried to help others,
Who are in sorrow and in pain.
And now I am contented,
My day was not in vain.
I’ll lend a hand, as you have said
When someone is feeling low.
I’ll pray for them and be here,
‘Till on their way they go.
And when it’s time for me to go,
To join you in heaven high.
My wings I shall spread wide,
To my home up in the sky.
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher's Very Proud Mum
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Oh yes, I'm the great pretender
Pretending I'm doing well
My need is such
I pretend too much
I'm lonely but no one can tell
Oh yes, I'm the great pretender
Adrift in a world of my own
I play the game but to my real shame
You've left me to dream all alone
Too real is this feeling of make-believe
Too real when I feel what my heart can't conceal
Oh yes, I'm the great pretender
Just laughing and gay like a clown
I seem to be what I'm not you see
I'm wearing my heart like a crown
Too real when i feel what my heart can't conceal
Oh yes, I'm the great pretender
Just laughing and gay like a clown
I seem to be what I'm not you see
I'm wearing my heart like a crown
Pretending that you're...that your still around
Pretending that you're still around
SUNG BY THE PLATTERS
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☆31ST OCTOBER 2009☆
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LOVE JUDE. XX
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