| Location | Spalding |
| Age | 42 years |
| Date of Birth | 26/07/1964 |
| Date of Death | 18/05/2007 |
| Visitors | 14,795 since 14/07/2008 |
| Creator |
Mark Antony Trevey
Died 18th May 2007, aged 42 years.
Mark was a self employed window cleaner, he was born on 26th July 1964, he lived in Spalding,
Lincolnshire, all his life. Mark was my partner for seven years we have three boys, Joseph who is
now 22, Nathan who will be 21 in ten days time and Connor who is now 13, Mark has two sisters Mandy
and Jackie and one brother Jason, his Mum and Dad also live in Spalding. Mark died very suddenly on
18th May 2007, totally unexpected. The greatest shock of our lives.
I met Mark through friends at a local pub, we actually got together on New Years Eve 2000, we spent
the whole night laughing, chatting and having fun. He walked me home and the rest as they say is
history,
i was a very quiet person, when Mark first met me, he bought me out of myself, he taught me a lot of
things, how to have a good time, to let things wash over you, not to get too bogged down . , he
gave me confidence. Mark was always up for a laugh, he never got caught up with every day
pressures, he was very laid back, almost horizontal. Mark had tons of friends, we couldn't fo
anywhere without getting stopped to have chats, at his funeral over three hundred people attended,
they came from all over, Mark was a very big well known character in our town.
Mark loved children, every member of my family have children, they were all drawn to him, he was
like a magnet, he was happy to just sit with them and talk, on his window cleaning rounds, when the
children were at home he would let them wash the windows at the bottom of the house, they thought it
was great fun, he would send them off on some task, so that he could do the job properly. Some of
them would make him cakes and cookies especially in time for when he would arrive to clean the
windows, some would give him drawings, they all used to look forward to him coming round. I have a
lovely photo of Mark and our nephew Liam, we had spent the day in the garden having fun and a
barbecue in the evening, Liam had got very tired, the photo is of them both sitting on the settee,
Liam has fallen asleep laying on Mark's chest. This sums Mark up really, he was absolutely
brilliant wth children, he loved the boys, they were always play fighting and calling each other
names, all trying to out do each other, the house was usually filled with laughter. Birthdays and
Christmas were always very special, we always had special meals on our birthdays, Nathans birthday
is two days before Mark's and we usually spent the whole week partying. At christmas the house was
over run with lights, decorations and presents, Connor and Mark always went to get a tree on the
15th December, one year it was so big it wouldn't fit in the room, Mark had to cut the top off, I
would then get in from work, have tea and then start decorating the tree in the living room, it
would take hours, Mark always put the lights on and the boys and I would put on all the
decorations. We had a tree in the living room, the dining room and Connors room, Joseph and Nathan
just put lights up in their bedroom. Then there were all the outside lights, usually Mark and Nathan
would put them all up, over a period of days.
Mark was such a big figure in all our lives, he meant the world to us, our lives are totally
changed, I cannot believe I will never see him again, or hear him say "mornin chick, want a coffee",
he always called me chick, he would walk in the door and say "alright chick". I'll miss Mark for
the rest of my life, I can't put into words what he meant to me or how much I miss him, there is
such a void in my life, I truly hope Mark knew how much I love him and how much he meant to all of
us, we spend hours talking about him, there isn't a single day when the boys don't mention him,
usually we laugh at our memories, but we also cry, it's very hard to have to sit and listen to your
children cry for someone who isn't there any more.
Mark and Joe were the brainy ones of the family, always interested in natural history, shouting out
answers to the quizzes on tv, Nathan and Mark were always the handy people to have around, they did
the patio, decking and turfed the garden, and Connor was Mark's shadow, wherever Mark was, Connor
wasn't far behind, they were all much more than Father and Son they were good friends as well.
A year on from that awful day and I still can't believe this has happened, I still think it's a
nightmare from which I will wake, but when I sit at his grave and look at our memorials I know it's
not a terrible dream but an awful reality.
My darling Mark I will miss you forever, I'll never forget you, there isn't a day when we don't
think about you or talk about you. You will be in our hearts always
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Tributes For This Week 12th October
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FOR MONDAY
Our thoughts are ever with you
Though you have passed away.
And those who loved you dearly
Are thinking of you today.
FOR TUESDAY
Everyday in some small way
Memories of you come our way.
Though absent, you are always near
Still missed, loved and always dear.
FOR WEDNESDAY
We can't have old days back
When we were all together.
But secret tears and loving thoughts
Will be with us forever.
FOR THURSDAY
Thank you for loving and sharing,
For giving and for caring.
God bless you and keep you,
Until we meet again.
FOR FRIDAY
God saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you
And whispered "Come to Me".
A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard working hands now rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
FOR SATURDAY
Little did we know that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories,
Your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
You are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
And nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
FOR SUNDAY
Right now I'm in a different place
And though we seem apart
I'm closer than I ever was
... I'm there inside your heart
I'm with you when you greet each day
And while the sun shines bright
I'm there to share the sunsets, too
... I'm with you every night
I'm with you when the times are good
To share a laugh or two,
And if a tear should start to fall
... I'll still be there for you
And when that day arrives
That we no longer are apart,
I'll smile and hold you close to me
... Forever
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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WITH LOVE FROM EILEEN. X X
9TH OCTOBER 2009
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FROM JUDE. X X
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8TH OCTOBER 2009
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BLESSING TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS,.LOVE JUDE.X
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Teach me how to pray dear Lord
Give me the words to say
That I more clearly may express
My thoughts to you this day
Help me to confide in you
Let me the right words find
To tell you of the joys and fears
That lie within my mind
I know dear Lord you`ll understand
The stumbling words I use
Although my language is not grand
My prayers you’ll not refuse
Ian Russell
7th october 2009
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When the pain and grief are over
When it's my time to be by your side
I know you'll be waiting for me
And will greet me with arms open wide
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Until then I'll go on living
Though the light in my life has gone
The road will be long and lonely
But I'll bear up and try to be strong
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I pray that angels will guide me
Help me to get through this pain
Give me the strength to go on
Till we are together again
copyright� Ingrid Aspey 2009
♥♥ With Love ♥♥
We thought of you with love today
But that is nothing new,
We thought about you yesterday
And the days before that too,
We think of you in silence
We often speak your name,
Now all we have are memories
And your picture in a frame,
Your memory is our keepsake
With which we'll never part,
God has you in his keeping
We have you in our heart...
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~~Angel~~
I am an angel by your side
don't be scared or try to hide,
for I am here guiding you the way
by your side here to stay ~~
I will be with you when times are hard
so please don't worry or put up a guard,
for I want you to see I am still here
to keep you safe and keep you near ~~
As an angel I want so much for you to know
'How much I love and miss you so'
so if you see me please do not hide
I am the angel by your side ~~
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~~Good Friend~~
Good friends are forever
good friends are for keeps
when I see your name
my heart skips and leaps ~~
Whether pen pal on computer
or I can daily hug you
you are my friend
for what is inside you ~~
For my part I see that
this friendship has grown
to something imbedded deep
like i've never known ~~
I look forward to seeing
your name everyday
if only for a moment
it is just to say 'Hey' ~~
Whether my day is
lonely or full
that one small word
my heart you pull ~~
Through the computer
these words I send
to let you know
you are my FRIEND
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Thank-you Mary for always visiting Sean i'm so sorry i cant visit Mark as often as i'd like but i want you to know that you Mark and all your family are forever in my thoughts and always close to my heart.
Take care my friend god bless love always Bernadette xoxoxoxoxo
The life that I have
Is all that I have
And the life that I have
Is yours
The love that I have
Of the life that I have
Is yours and yours and yours.
A sleep I shall have
A rest I shall have
Yet death will be but a pause
For the peace of my years
In the long green grass
Will be yours and yours and yours.
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ THANK YOU MY FRIEND ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ WITH LOVE ALWAYS LINDA.XXX ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥
7TH OCTOBER 2009
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ANGELS ARE WATCHING OVER YOU......
IN THE ARMS OF THE ANGELS WHERE YOU REST IN ETERNAL LOVE
SURROUNDED BY SHEER BEAUTY IN HEAVEN ABOVE
EACH ONE OF YOU ENTERED AND WERE GIVEN WINGS OF LACE
WHERE YOU CAN ALL FLY SO FREE WITH A SMILE UPON YOUR FACE
EACH NIGHT YOU LIGHT UP IN THE MIDNIGHT SKIES
ANGELS LIVE FOREVER NOT ONE OURS EVER DIES
EVEN THOUGH WE CANNOT SEE THEM THEY WATCH OVER US ALL
RIGHT UNTIL THE DAY THAT THEY ALL HEAR US CALL
ANGELS WATCH OVER US WHILE WE ARE DEEP IN SLEEP
OUR GUARDIAN ANGELS ARE THERE TO ALWAYS KEEP
A CLOSE WATCH OVER EVERYTHING WE SAY AND DO
REMEMBER THAT YOUR ANGELS ARE ALWAYS WATCHING OVER YOU......
copyright Rosalind Roberts 7/10/09
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